I remember when I got married, I was absolutely ecstatic when we had finally received our wedding photos. As we pulled up our wedding photos to view the slideshow with our family, I remember having a huge smile, but suddenly my face changed to disappointment as we got to the end of the preparation and portraits. I just didn’t like the way our photographer posed me for the portraits. I just didn’t think I look very flattering or beautiful in those poses at all. What a disappointment.

To have that one day in your life in the most beautiful dress, but to not be happy with the way you are posed in the portraits. From that day on, I made sure it was my mission to be a master in the art of posing brides and couples.

Sadly, a lot of photographers don’t understand that it’s not just about the the beautiful compositions, backdrops, and even moments. Though those are all important, it is an absolute necessity to be a master in the art of posing to ensure the bride and the groom look absolutely dazzling on the best day of their life. 

So here is the first tip to posing!

How to Look Your Best In Your Wedding Portraits

Posing is an ART. But understandably it's an art that a lot of couples are nervous about, and SADLY that a lot of so-called "professional" photographers actually don't know how to direct correctly.

So if you happen to have a photographer who doesn't know how to pose you with expertise and intention, what are a few things you should remember?

Here are a few pointers. I call these THE FOUNDATION of posing:

1. Imaginary String: First off you want to ensure that your spine is straight, but NOT stiff and unnatural. I often ask my couples to act as if there is a string on the back/top of their head pull up. Have a straight spine and natural curve in you lumbar (lower back).

2. Shoulders: Push your shoulders 1 inch back. This will further bring confidence and beauty in your pose.

3. Weight Distribution: You want your weight distribution to be uneven or else your pose will look unnatural. There are two ways to do this. Either cross one leg over the other or put more weight on your back leg. Look at the photo below. Each of these techniques were used on this photo of Dani.